Basically, this happens when he is in demand and not confident with his purpose. 2. Im calling it a quit today. 3rd time we were together, I kissed her and she did kiss me back so a few days later I had asked her if she wanted to have dinner, and she had some things to do for the holidays ok, no problem I said. Women are attracted to the inner confidence of a man and I talk about how to get out of the friend zone anymore in my product here! Even after you've told your partner that these mementos from her ex make you uneasy, she refuses to give them up, and, according to Brenner, this presents one of the biggest signs that your partner is refusing to move on from old memories of her previous relationship. This kind of behavior is a clear sign that your ex is testing the waters with you and that his or her messages or calls are meaningless. JAGABAN ft SELINA TESTED EPISODE 15 part 2.. War without end .. 427 Likes 36 Shares. It goes something like this: You have a few dates, then suddenly the communication becomes infrequent or he never texts you back. So I noticed anytime Id see this girl, shed tell me I was a rock star. Hi Matt, The moment was perfect for me to make the move and kiss her but again, i didnt. Always super nice. That is it: the women just dont like me as simple as that. Now she still talks n jokes around likes before. Once you make her wonder she may come to you. I know what you are going through can be very confusing and frustating. , At the end happened all as what Apollonia said. You are now armed to the teeth for when the war of not texting and ignoring breaks out. Peace, Hi Gerald, I dont want to feel played, but i do. So plz I need ur adivise, coz Ive tried everything I could do but no success. I said hey she saw me, turned bright red, then went straight to her car. Required fields are marked *, document.getElementById("comment").setAttribute( "id", "ac890671972bc684b3e011b78fc89361" );document.getElementById("b95876403b").setAttribute( "id", "comment" );Comment *. Youre right when you say, that a man must stand his ground based on his own principles and not let anyone detour his progress towards becoming successful in life. Thanks for stopping by and reading she rejected mt but still acts interested. DR! You might be thinking well, if I dont pay attention to her she will go out and find another guy. I am working in UK. Didnt even say goodbye to that guy. He doesnt have his own opinion, hes too nice, there is no challenge, and he is always doing everything the woman wants and not showing her that he is ok with her or ok without her. If its meant to be so be it. She bails on you more frequently than she actually shows up. I would like to add that I lived and still do in the same neighborhood where she works and she would stare non stop every time I walked by her to the point I was intimated by her good looks and I would not make eye contact. Things are different than they were 40 years ago and I cant figure women out, especially her. (Anne punches him across the face with tears in her eyes, knocking his crown away. All Rights Reserved. (but she says NO DATING) Im really confused about her intentions. When she saw it, she turned bright red again, But anytime Id work up the courage to ask her out, she pushed me away. I thought this would at least show her to be the friend i needed. If she makes an effort - it must be a sign she likes him. He continues to watch your Instagram stories every day and often he's one of the first people to view them. If youre still confused, then I would suggest booking a private session. Hopefully, the answer is no.". Be the bigger person and write something short but cool-headed, something you won't cringe over the following week. Also answer some questions. Hi Vaibhav, Its the same for men, sometimes you just dont feel it with a woman. But theres better options out there. Because this is toxic behavior which leads to unhealthy relationships. Thank you for reading my blog post She Rejected Me, but Still Acts Interested! Even when he walk to find something like a soda she gave him signs as he saw. He allowed my heart to pine and really desire. Hi There! He also added me on instagram and snap chat. She's losing interest. If someone has stopped talking to you but is still following you, it could be that they're not ready to talk to you yet. Because you denied your true self. When a friend just stops talking to you, they violate your relationship agreement. Yet, shell contact me whenever the mood strikes her. This is the inner confidence that I talk about a lot! She knows I want to have a relationship and Ive made no secret about it (my wife died three years ago, and I didnt choose to be single after 35 years being married) she knows I like her a lot, but always gets offended if I say anything about dating, or whatever if I say anything naughty she gets offended, even just kidding around, even mentioning dating, and we have not dated, not had sex, anything. is that she only wanted attention. And he obviously does it daily because he sees each one I post . If I could make a donation I certainly would., Hey Carlo. Best, I commented because youre nice, humble, educated and nice so why I shouldnt. (1) Im not really in a place to be dating relationships are complicated. Dont focus on being jealous of the other guy and getting bent out of shape because things arent going your way. I read your blog, you gave us men some good advice. We went out a few times, she came to my place on the 3rd date. Hi Kennedy, When I read her message and dint reply on time,she gets angry and feels ignored. I would start dating other women and not give her any attention. In a weird, petty way I"m satisfied by that because it means he's been checking up on my profile. I didnt made any moves, even if i knew i could kiss her on a few occasions. She knew i was married from day one and we dated then her ex once came back and physically assaulted her, from there she just told me she is broken and she is just distant. I said I dont even have your phone number anymore as I deleted it. I said her that i hate ignoring and we are friends and we will but i dont want to talk to you thats it , then i started ignoring her in college on whatsapp i didnt talked to her for 5 days. Listining to him answering question and so on. 3. But she also still looks at my Instagram profile and stories and follows me, after I decided to unfollow her because of how I'm feeling. I offered to help but she said she had enough people so it was ok. Talk to her Saturday and she was tired from moving. There is a girl working in a nearby restaurant who is from France. You can go on other dates and show her that its not all about her at the moment and if not, I want you to dedicate some time to yourself and get back your sense of self. Over the past couple of weeks Ive gone through some really bad personal issues with a bereavement within the family. so after the next 5 days she texted me and ask my condition, what does it mean. She's still trying to move on from her previous relationship. If any of these tips resonated with you, I encourage you to follow some of the tips that I have talked on how to move forward. Women decide when they want to sleep with you or how they feel about you based on how you make them feel. Is it possible I might come on as too intense whenever Im dealing with a woman I like to know? At night I invited her for dinner she said where is your house joking wisw so I asked to go out some place and she discovered Im from a different religion she said no commenting I dont go out with strangers besides I still dont know you. Grime, Hop Pop, Polly, and Sasha gasp in awe. She deleted you because she liked you too much. 7 Reasons Why! Its the same thing that guys do, too. I know I missed my chance and I screwed the situation myself. I Asked People Who Ghosted Me Why They Still Watch My Instagram Stories. I have Ben reading your advice. I called once, but she never answered. But recently I had let one of her friends know that I knew. I wrote this content by interviewing SEVERAL women! Hi, Apollonia. I know what its like, Read More Is She Playing Me? So I decided to stop talking to her it was the weekend on Monday she ping me asking how was my weekend and sent her a voice note which showed my voice isnt well so she asked are you ok it seems youre upset or tired whats wrong? I also have my faith in Gods word and truly believe in His promises for me. If you're in the same situation, then your guy may be keeping you as an option. Ive been following you for some time and knew the direction to go. Our pal Jeffrey Marsh has taken some heat for telling their young followers to subscribe to their Patreon so they can have deep, private conversations without their parent's knowledge. Gaslighting In A Relationship: The 5 Signs Of Gaslighting & How To Stop It! Hi Apollonia my name is Kennedy, I have been dating a girl for 4 years and she broke up with me and I accept but she keep on talking to me any time we meet in the church and also call me.after 3 weeks I ask her about what she said and she said she have move on but she still want to talk to me or call me because we always see in the same church. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call so I can help you figure out what you need to do next! Apollonia. why making this long progress without any reason? Hi, at first i initiated for conversation with her on whatsapp. I was always inviting her to meet, but she never did. It is never too late to initiate communication. (3) at one point she said she has a boyfriend. , Thanks Apollonia, this blog couldnt have come at a better time. I would need more on your advice concerning my relationship with a lady that Irelly love, and we have been in a relationship for almost 3years now, but it happened several times, almost like four times now that she is in a relationship with me but later on she told me that she has found another guy where her feelings are highly on him, this became a challenge to me and I had to fight for my relationship untill I managed solve the issue out, this happened 3times where Everytime she had feelings on different guys, though such things were happening Iwas able to sort issues and we continue with our relationship as normal. I am a lesbian and appreciate the blog. Im I over thinking this? She said me she likes me as a friend. Doesnt matter how successful I am at my beloved profession. Compliments feel nice. He runs away because of your behavior. A woman who rejected you will likely avoid you to prevent awkwardness. I soon started to see signs that she likes me. Even after I moved away for 45 days she was curiuos what I was doing in that time. A few months ago she asked me to help her with some projects. I thought it was because of being shy and maybe Id have to take the lead, but now I almost dont care. This typically happens because you like her (of course) but you also want to get a result right away, so you dont give her time and space, and this pushes her away. If you get rejected because of this dont lose confidence and show her something different. Assuming this is what you want then you may try to contact your girl and see if things can't get back. When a woman rejects you and you show her that youre mad, hurt, or disappointed then you gave up your sense of control and no one can give their sense of control away unless they choose to. I hope you mean a woman. So she starts to see that she wants you! I would love to help you with this. "I have to say, I have done it a little bit, but I at least have the decency to do it from a burner account," Lorenz jokes. She replied why you wanna know more about me? But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable. It seems like she had a big sense of control over the relationship and this has to be even. First many thanks for your very smart and useful advices I got via your YT channel (as I found it first). Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can have long-term consequences for the victim. So glad to hear that my blogs are helpful. I am lost here and not sure what to do. She was talking with a guy. It's his way of coping with the break up. So why do some women act interested in order to have the attention from the men that they are not interested in? She might be looking to play the field and have fun with other men. I said you wanted a space as I was rushing in you so I gave you space moving myself away from you. Thank you for your support and reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested I appreciate your comment and Im glad you are here. He or she wants to know what is new with you. Spending about 5 minutes. what do i do?? Just talk to her at church with no expectation for something in the future. This could be for numerous reasons. Turn Offs For Women You Should Never Ignore. Listen, you may like this girl and think shes perfect but if you want a chance with her, then you have to make sure you do not give up your sense of control and really master your attraction skills when it comes to trying to re-attract her. I know that things and situations are placed in front of me. women have to play hard . But I get ANY woman I want, all I need is eye contact and one conversation and I own them. Don't be . If she needs the support then support her but also show her that you will give her personal space and not become overbearing. I will never be the prize of any woman, as I never saw any woman sexually wanting me at my whole life. You don't owe this person any . you are very welcome!!! In this blog, I am going to give you some techniques but I will also give you some insight, as a woman, as to why this is happening. One day to she wants to be a pair, next day she runs away of relationship. Again I am lostLOL. (not all guys do this and not all women do this, but it happens its completely natural) if someone is making us feel good about ourselves, then we will use that. When a guy gives up chasing you, it may be because he feels you don't like him. I would encourage you to book a coaching session with me so I can know more about her and tell you why she is acting this way towards you. Whether they're looking to inspire pity, envy, or longing, seeing your ex . Photo by Kendra Kamp on Unsplash. This makes me happy that you feel guided. Listen, women can sometimes be the most confusing creatures on the planet and sometimes we can even confuse ourselves! So, if a girl has rejected a guy because of that reason, why is she still acting interested? Answer (1 of 17): Cause you're plan B and he thinks he can keep tabs on you. she said i give her time i asked and she was like 2/ 3 months but we communicate as we dating . But shes very quick to tell me about my failing her trust. If her aim was just to have fun or to flirt with a guy but she rejected him because he was serious, why does she still act interested on that guy? Now, i dont dispute this she is out of a relationship but we were closer when she was in her relationship than out of it. But I couldnt confessed all this face to face, I was afraid. And I added when youll be ready to meet me, you can invite me, sure. But your relationships will soon end in divorce or breakup. The chat she started was about her experience in life generally and then about sex and her past relationships and even she mentioned she loves sex a lot she doesnt mind doing it all day. She after drove me home. So one day I wore it. She says shes never had a bond like this with anyone, and seems to want her cake and to eat it not only with me but her ex. You can book a private coaching session here https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ Being aligned with a purpose and following and going after something that makes you happy is exactly what you have to do in order to get her to think of you as high-quality and different from everyone else. She is in no mood to talk to you. If she becomes truly attracted to you after rejecting you, she will have to come to you, apologize, and ask you for another chance. She said she just had to figure her life out. After a while If they dont then you have a better opportunity because she saw your willingness to walk away and respect yourself. All the time I was kind and caring towards her and she was liking that and she found me so nice, gentle and sweet. 80% of my invitations were rejected. I approached this girl and she told me shes already made her mind with a different guy and yet she keeps on fetching her problems for me to solve and all the time she keeps on telling me shes already in love with someone else and pretend like were dating..what should I do..?? Dont give them any reason to do this. Thanks again, Hi Adam, Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by marlow1962 ( m ): 10:04am On Jan 25. He feels hurt that you broke up with him. 7 Reasons Why! You are a saviour for lot of men. by Sara David. Thank you so much! Sorry, this happened but I would suggest taking this as a lesson. I proposed a classmate and she rejected me but she always sticks to me and always say she wants me to be happy. King Solomon wrote the greatest love poem ever written, 'Song of Songs", and this horse for me is God's greatest love poem from Him to me. Nonetheless, for me, the major reason for I being always been rejected by any kind of woman is that I am simply too much shy, too much physically unattractive and have a very unattractive way of being. We never use our practice to dominate or be manipulative. This is a very clear sign that he still cares about you and is just waiting for the right time to approach you. But still she says she likes me as a friend and i think i should stop talking with her. ok She says she doesnt want a relationship or a boyfriend ok I get that. Thanks for reading my blog! Like I said, it can be a nice bit of flattery if you view it that way. Then she said. We dated for 2yrs and just this February 2020,she told me she is not interested. For too long men have allowed women to lie to them; saying one thing while meaning another. Then I said it was messed up because if a good friend just stops talking to me then they must hate me or is mad at me. 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