(he was asked from her what are u doing, when she replied studying, he texted shall i come to study with u, and she replied there are my friends at my room, and he replied its k.no matter i ll come) But anyway after i saw it i lost my trust on him. In order for your partner to communicate, share ideas, and feel close to you, you must reciprocate their attention; a healthy relationship isn't a one-way street. Weve been together for 5 years. Since then my boyfriend has made no effort in our relationship. Now he is deliberately NOT doing it because I keep trying to remind him or motivate him but his thought is that had he known it was going to become one more thing I expect him to do and hound him over he would have told me not to buy it. Just stop talking to him and stop making so much effort. Im in college and so is he. And its so confusing because we do get along on every other front like we laugh and have so much fun when we hangout and talk a couple times everyday, but I tell him I like small silly gifts every now and then, and just anything thats like hey this made me think of you but he still doesnt seem to get it. i want to try to talk to him about it since we never argued or anything but ive been feeling this way for quite a while and i dont want to just break up with him like that. My ex-best friend snitched to my mom and told her everything about my bf and got some info from close friends about me meeting him secretly so my mom gradually started finding stuff out. The last year and half has been a struggle just one thing after the other. I am very fortunate to be free from that. Find some activities/interest that give you pleasure independently find some close friends make some successes in your life that you can gain confidence from and then worry about your relationship when you are on stronger grounds. The day before yesterday he texted me saying hes been feeling unwell and didnt get much sleep. I feel like my heart is breaking already, just waiting for the dreaded phone call to say he cant give me what I want when Ive said all I want is some time together an hour here or there, some texts to show he cares I dont feel its much but if its too much for him then I guess I need to accept things. he felt i shifted too much of my attention to work and the kids and not enough to him. Hes him. Im at a loss. We actually ended up breaking up and I tried to distance myself. When I got back to our dorm that night I ft him and told him it felt right but It was also an accident. This makes me feel like he just needs me to help him with work. But he laughed at me. Recently, despite being together for 5 years, I feel like a booty call. I have to fix myself and thats the problem with people now adays. I wasnt looking but I found it. his excuse of not having quality time? I cant let go of people. He also is financially stressed and gets seasonal sadness (its winter here in Wisconsin) and I try my hardest to support his needs with it all but it drains me always having to take care of him while I get nothing in return except more expectations. If youre not happy then leave him, its that simple. Its more to the story but I just want to vent that.. hey girl wake up,do you want to spend the rest of your life living like that? My boyfriend and I both 21 have been dating for almost 3 years and for almost 2 years he has been serving the military back home with only weekends to spare and while I am in Canada studying for almost a year. It may be time to reassess your relationship. Girl, you need to get out of that relationship now! I have started noticing lots of cracks in our relationship which have eventually led to me feeling unloved, invisible, not a priority and lonely. Im the beginning, it was easy. He used to do all these romantic things for me before we went long distance. Before that weve only met to chat, watch a movie or take a walk. I feel very angry that his being occupied with school took him away from me and suffocated what little was left of an already struggling relationship. He keeps telling me that if I think relationships are only about anniversaries and dates, giving each other a label, cheesy stuff, then for him it isnt meaningful. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years. They just seems like some eords. As his tummy is upset, but theres been more times idk I just think in this lockdown Ill message him say Im not far from where he is and Im like I could drive past wave from my car and hes like no dont do that. Now he doesnt do any of those, and I miss how it was before. I simply did it because I knew I wasnt perfect and I wanted to become the women I needed to be for him. That will show me he doesnt plan on committing for the long haul. He nolonger would make as much effort, like call or text to check on me. Also he always respond but hes texting less. But you have to become selfless. I do still love him, and have a lot of nice moments with him, and great memories. And I told him we can figure it out together after 1/2 weeks I asked him again and go if you dont want to be with me just say it and he said he doesnt want to be a di**head and I said fine and I tried ending it because the way I was getting replies I felt as if he didnt want this no more. As stated above, knowing what your boyfriend is going through (ex trauma, personal grief, work load) is important and all, but also knowing how you would act if you were in a similar situation gives you answers and peace. I double-majored in physics and mathematics and was sooooo constantly busy and very emotionally abused at the time in my relationship. If, however, your boyfriend really has lost interest in you, then you may have to be painfully honest with yourself. You can let go slowly at first and just start seeing other people. Sometimes I felt that he was mad at me, he would say that I was a show off or that I always took things too seriously. He was all amazing.. first few months showered me with flowers and gifts then slowly I started to see his true colours. He sense my seriousness and took me out on a date, told me he will make more time to spend with me once a week (Im busy too so once a week is good for me.) I bought him a journal for prompting thoughts of positivity and gratitude, He acted appreciative and was OK to do the morning and evening prompts. I love him to death, and I know he loves me. LEAVE HIM. If you feel like hes avoiding you and youve tried to get his attention and it hasnt worked, then dont insist Thats for a few reasons. The next year we talked again. Its almost like when he couldnt have me he would try hard and now he has me and he doesnt have to put in anymore effort. NO CLEANING. Hes a good man but not romantic, lately I been feeling like I been putting in all the work & carrying the relationship. So yeah after that we began talking and calling. When I asked again the second time I had to remind him since money was tight for the both of us that I wasnt the kind of girl that needed some fancy, expensive date, that if I came home one day and he had a blanket later out in the backyard and some snacks or whatever out for us and we ended up just laying there looking up at the stars the whole time and talking that that alone would be a really good date in my eyes. Despite me working on being explicitly clear- he still hasnt been willing or able to meet my needs. Also he NEVER wants to have sex so that concerns me too. I miss my best friend and I hate that it feels like maybe hes not missing me as much as I do. Its been hard but there are better things to come. Fine, dont come. He said he was planning on proposing that year. This is literally me. If your boyfriend never made an effort to begin with, then he may simply be lazy or indifferent to building and maintaining a relationship with you. Its amazing how identical to yours he is. But I just dont have enough energy to even cry sometimes. Let him go! You have to be willing to become selfless. Now I am sitting alone in my room crying and reading online articles about how to feel better about myself. So he does nothing. if he told you he does not see a future with you, as hard as it is, you need to walk away now. he only paid for me once and he never surprises me with dates or buy gifts. Ive mentioned the kissing thing to him a couple of times and so far, no real change. I may be overreacting sometimes, but I believe my feelings are valid. Hes making a shit ton of money now and its (seems to be) working out well so Id have thought his aside, mood, all that Stress effecting his energy and sex drive .. Would have gotten better. When i say effort drops off, he takes hours to reply to me despite being very active on social media and those replies are one word conversation enders, isnt bothered about spending time with me, tells me he is busy with his family, but I will find out hes actually with his friends, I plan days out in advance but he makes me aware he wont be able to attend because of workbut then when the time comes round to it, he is free but is going out with his friends in advance. I love drinking with him and having a laugh but he doesnt seem to feel the same. We are in LDR. Your boyfriend is a narcissist. I had sent him links to little trinkets and gifts. He asked if I wanted help learning and I said a big yes. I trust him and I wanna keep trusting him. Any advice is well appreciated. I am very confused and angry at myself because I know he wasnt like that in his previous relationship endeavors. They may not come true. good luck to you. But things went roughed to both of us.. His brother lives for free with his mother and he has nothing but contempt for him over it. I just want to feel special!! When I try to talk to him about my feelings he never ever knows how to react and just completely closes off from me. Even when you are depressed you can do little things, especially if its for someone you love. I try to help him to make it easier for him since I know he has a lot on his plate but he doesnt seem to notice that. All you can do is give him space to love you the way he wants. dont waste your time on a man that is using you. I feel like i am constantly having to fight for us to have a better relationship. Although he did not tell me this beforehand, we have been trying to work on these issues and improve our relationship. Ladies lay back and observe. Sometimes I dont talk to see if hell bring anything up, and the silence is too awkward and long that I give in and say something else. But I just feel unwanted and that all I do for him is in vain. But nope as well. Hes now working at a new job since Jan and its great! But hes not different. This weekend I called for a break, and told him we should spend time apart. This is an old post but was wondering what you did? Also his mum is very protective of him and has him wrapped around his finger, when she wants him home he goes which is very frustrating for me. Three weeks in he moved in with me and then the coronavirus pandemic hit and our romance took a nosedive. We live in one of the coolest states in the world, Orlando Fl. Ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, i love him and I know he loves me back but, my biggest insecurity is him changing and being lazy in the relationship, which I have noticed he has been doing lately. I dont think my boyfriend knows how to deal with someone like me. im still giving him a 100 up till today. I just lack security in myself that I need to fill. I feel he could have a gf or just not be that interested. Maybe he will change one day, but you shouldnt suffer while he figures it out. My bday in Jan and our 5 year anniversary/V-tines Day was a sh*t show. But he never tells me how he feels when I ask. It just makes me feel so not good enough for him. On a scale of 1 to 10, would you rate your relationship a 1 (you started dating within the last couple of months and are still in the beginning phases of getting to know each other) or a 10 (youve been dating for 20 years and know each other inside and out)? Hes really bad at texting and sometimes we dont really talk on the phone cause he said he was tired. Ive been giving some hint and already talked about how I feel and why Im acting like this. i feel lonely in my relationship because it is very one sided. And youll likely receive the same treatment. He just doesnt make an effort to ask me to do things. I think I should take a relationship break but dont want to lose him. It breaks my heart not talking to him and hearing about his day but I know this was for the best. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I accepted bread crumbs, while continuing to give and give and give. The only thing I get from him are words. I had a quarantine birthday and got a ton of messages and phone calls from everyone, but from him? We may have jumped into it a little fast but we knew each other so well and things were going great. Then, all of the sudden the bottom drops out and he is unresponsive. I realized he got into gaming with a girl for a long time. Not material things, but being romantic on special occasions. It is just hurtful to know that he could not even think of doing this one thing for me. Hello Laurie, thank you for writing the article. when i make plans to go out tgt w him he will in the end cancel it and i feel so fked up. If the boyfriend didnt do that and kept saying he did nothing wrong, maybe it is time you find someone who can truly respect the beautiful soul you are. My youngest is a 1 month and when she was about two weeks old he met this girl on a bar while hanging out with his best friend and got her number. However he has an interview for one. First off I pulled back without warning. Are circumstances in your boyfriends life affecting how he relates to you and others? After his birthday he left his sisters and moved in with his mom. He Found Someone Else. He has told me over and over that I need to stop. She tried to meet my bf but she found out about more crazy stuff and i got into a lot of trouble. He has issues, related to Pyrones disease. 6 Ways to Revive Your Relationship. I am retired. Not texting me as often, not asking when we are going to hangout again. Yet he continues to text me daily, send me daily updates on everything he is doing, etc. So any advice would be helpful. Because he needs time for himself and his past time projects, which is understandable as he is more introverted. Ive been in same situation. He tells me constantly how much he loves me.. I feel like it would be easier being single which I dont want cuz hes a great guy other wise. Its like you are not even there. Sadly, he doesnt ask questions about me, my life before. Crazy! I dont feel like I really know him at all. Always come lastAnd itsbreaking My heartthat I dont know what to do Financially Im not able to move And my son doesnt want to Any advice? He is a very patient and calm person. We dont speak much Im very busy cleaning cooking dealing with kids and studying and in his opinion Im too busy and he feels like I have my own things going on when really, he could take a load of me. I talk about this with him. Libido has infinitely dropped. Sometimes he will notice mistakes I make on the work but not notice how much I need his affection. Oh, also he keeps poking my stomach and at first it was funny and cute but now its genuinely annoying and Im trying to tell him to stop but he doesnt take me seriously and just kind of turns it into a joke. While you should always feel free to express yourself and say whats on your mind, take a good look at the way you're communicating. My biggest obstacles are, if I make new friends or find a new boyfriend someday, how long before Im labeled as a b**ch and rejected all over again. You want him to want you. It wasnt any thing bad. He talks about himself so much but never asks about me. Also be prepared to lose him. Which really confuses me. So I dug in my heels, and he had a stressful day at work, so it ended with him yelling that I was bipolar and he needed a break before I left and he went back to work. Is that just how things are going to go? Now, he doesnt put effort. You are so young and still have many, many years to find a good guy. He doesnt ever say I love you first, he doesnt hold my hand, the most hell ever do on his own is give me a kiss here and there and theyre quick pecks. Should I just leave and find someone that can give me those things? These are no games. Maybe you feel grateful when your boyfriend finally decides to stop by at 10 pm, without calling first. Im always the one organizing my life around his and making sure we see each other. Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and weve lived together for 3.5 of those years. Then we signed our new real lease together and I dont know how we got where we got but he started getting lazy. I feel like Im the only one putting any effort for us to spend time together. I understand exactly where youre coming from. I feel like a roommate or guest or kept woman instead of woman he loves. And the only way to do that to take more care of our own selves, love ourselves moretruly love our self! I got so angry and disappointed after that. I tried to get my best friend to take me (I cant drive) to his sisters baby shower so i could see him but i found out she no longer was friends with him and she hated that we were dating and regretted getting us together. I felt once again unappreciated. We have complete separate paths in store and we have absolutely nothing in common and we also live together but we barely see each other so you would think that when we do have time for one another he would enjoy the time he has with me but it doesnt feel like that. Then, at least FaceTime? WORKS BUT DOES NOTHING ELSE. He sounds lazy and you sound unhappy. Somewhere around the last 2-3 months have been nothing but fights. Xx Be strong. I love this guy so much but I dont know what else to do, I dont want to live without him we have gotten so serious pretty fast. Anyways, he has told me before that he plans to make me his girlfriend, we have great conversations, hes very flirty but the problem is he doesnt text me often or try to call or set up a date. But I am tired of not having a life together anymore. I moved across the world during the honey moon phase of our relationship. I get it but at the same time if he wasnt ready to forgive me he didnt need to and should of taken his own time instead of us going through this. So my boyfriend and I will have been together for a year this november. He said he loved me pretty much from the beginning, but never made an effort to see me or make plans unless I suggested it. Whenever I go anywhere its just me and the kids! I got to see him in person for the first time and we were in love. 1) You would start to see your boyfriend noticing how positive, content and a happy individual you are turning out to be suddenly, and then wonder if therell be any other guys whod potentially be eyeing youbecause you are really becoming such a happy and lovely girl. I was so upset and sad to know he did that, specially after just having a baby. What do you do when your boyfriend hate you so much when he is drunk? ANGRY ALL THE TIME. And because Ive been depressed lately makes it that Im not much to look at, so why would he want to take me out now. I am getting back to a new normal. [1] The key to solving any problem is understanding the underlying cause. Even seemingly harmless criticism and patronizing comments, too, can take a toll. Romantic. Getting older I desired to go on dates more and more. I made it to the driveway before I felt so uncomfortable I ran inside to put on jeans and a tee shirt. I dont think he will change. And think about the other person not just about yourself. I tell him how much it hurts when he says certain things and that there is ZERO excuse for intentionally hurting someone we love. He gets annoyed and sighs and does the What do you want from me now?? It just seems like a cliche movie begining or something. I was very prioritized in his life before but now he does not want to place me as high on his priority list anymore. But he feels that I would have a better chance getting a job were he lives then him getting a Job where I live but thats not the point. If he wants to make an effort to come visit you a few times you can see hes pulling his weight. I would be the one driving to go see him, but I still over looked it and gave him benefit of doubt. He was very affectionate and gentle towards me and would make it a point to call me every day, the first maybe 2-3 months of our relationship. He still did not make much of an effort as far as even coming to visit me. You only care about yourself, youre lazy out of anger.. which it catches up to me and makes me awful because I know his lack of energy plays a large part of it but how am I supposed to feel or do.. to make it even better he recently told me after a large fight about laundry or something I barely remember, that hes decided to go for traveling nursing in California this spring because he will make more Money (something he is very stressed out about) and I dont know what to do because thats not part of our plan. I can tell you have much love for him but imagine how good itll be to love someone that has that same love and 10x more for you. Were on the same boat! I tried to tell him how rude that was and he didnt understand where I was coming from and proceeded to tell me I was making a big deal about it. So accept that it will be hard, cry about it for a week or two and try to move on with your life and realize that you deserved so much better then that pos. Or stay here and break up. Follow these tips on what to do when he stops calling and texting you. That being said, on Christmas or birthdays or Valentines day, I expect something. I wasnt allowed to talk to my bf but i did anyways like every night but i couldnt talk on zoom or ppl would hear me. work game sleep. I have since ended the relationship as I feel it is a one way system with him taking and not giving. Been with my boyfriend 2 years.he told me he smokes pot, which than i said im not supporting your habbit (which i meant financially). Weve been dating a little over a year. it makes me feel like hes okay with giving me the minimum because he knows i will accept it. He drinks constantly. We were living together but decided to try living apart since we jumped into the relationship. After he left me, my life became miserable.. When you feel as though your partner isn't giving you the attention you deserve, it can be incredibly frustrating, confusing, and hurtful. But, he still seems emotionally unavailable in that he doesnt know how to express his feelings for me, or reassure me. Ive been doing long distance for nearly 4 years now which hasnt been so good with COVID but honestly thats just an excuse, I think our relationship was still doing bad back then. He has motivation and spends money on doing that but what about me lol, he puts no effort into our relationship. His family are complicated, we rushed into our relationship, live together almost 5 years. I decided I deserve to be treated with love and respect. He might end up resenting you, instead. He also said that I know how he is and that he is tired from work. It was amazing, we had so much fun. im going through the same thing my boyfriend will not text me nor will he call me when i text him again he reply and said his mother getting on his nerve he goes to her house to take care of her he said he been going through alot with his mom very upset but my thing is what about me where do i fit into your life i dont even know if were still in a relationship my daughter say dont text or call him we been together over a year hes 52 im 55 what should i do im lost, Ive been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. I sometimes wonder if my daughter was dating someone like him, if Id tell her to ditch him. Everything is fried up. its been 10 days now and he havent ask me out, during these 10 days when he says i miss you or i say i miss, he would ask me to meet at his place for couple of hours (again at the spare of the moment). He never compliments me, from my perspective he only tells me when Im not doing something right. 36 Questions to Ask Your Partner That Lead to Love, 6 Signs Youre Growing Apart From Your Partner, take a negative toll on your relationship, determine if the partnership is worth mending. Damn this just made me cry because this is exactly what Im going through rn. SHE STILL HAD HER HARNOUS ON HER. My boyfriend of three years got me a card. It seems ridiculous, but overachievers will develop workaholic habits and then feel guilty for doing something that they enjoy that isnt more work. I havent see each other for 2months which it is really upsetting. He told me he loved me within weeks of us meeting. Does Your Life Feel Pointless Without a Relationship? We used to work on projects together, go for walks, and he barely even grooms now. This quarantine also suddenly ruined my relationship. This is where my first question comes in: how well do you know your boyfriend? Not just that, sexually as well. Interestingly I dont really like his love, yet Im the one trying to maintain a sex life and hes the one being cold and avoidant? You have to accept the current man in front of you and decide how you want to move forward with who he is in the moment not who he was in the past. And what does he say when I say that, he says what plan? This is all so contradictory and Im confused about our relationship. I met my boyfriend at work. I know that feeling. We were together 8 months. He calls me stupid n crazy. He never comes to see me, I always have to go to him. He cant see his daughter now because his crazy ex wife wont let him. He forgave me and I eventually moved back. But I have been through more than enough pain and tough times for my age and I really wanted to be of help because I can imagine what you must be going through. There is just nothing in return. Again, tons of excuses. 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